been quite busy lately… there’s been a rush in my life, just change a new enviroment, a new nanny, my aunt drop sick, another aunt need to do chemotheraphy, and then something mix up with my job and sos so…
blog blog
April 4, 2008 at 10:10 am (me me)
why i blog? there is some reason:
…i can talk what i want here.
…to tell out the trouble that happen and may in real lifes i can’t talk about it.
…i may not know you and you don’t know me.
…and there is someone call melysa lum exsist in this place called Earth.
…and this is the things that is really had happen to me and it makes me never forget what had happen.
…and it always remind me of what is called payback time.
this is me
April 4, 2008 at 10:05 am (in-laws, me me)
whether you like it or not, this is me… i m who i m , i don’t have to care about what the others think about, so, why should i bother about how you think about me? if you don’t like me, get out of my faces, and don’t worry, i won’t want to see you either.
This is to my in-laws that involves a feud with me.
congratulations
April 1, 2008 at 2:58 pm (Uncategorized)
todays is april fool…
and also congratulations to earthtone, she is welcoming another baby into her lives, i wish her and bao bao and her baby and her husband a happy family together…
i want my aunt back…
March 28, 2008 at 9:06 am (孩子篇)
I finally got a new nanny, but carmen missed my aunt, she cried in the morning when we sent her to nanny, she cried during the night bacause she missed my aunt… this is making me and kane having restlest night for days…
So, i brought carmen and sabrina to visit my aunt after the get back from hospital, guess what? Carmen say bye to us when we are leaving, eventually, she wants to stay there as she miss her alot… the following day, my aunt came to see her, and she trying to leave the house when my aunt is going home… those 2 nights are the most peaceful night since my aunt went into hospital…
The summary is my girls miss her so much, I pray to God that I hope my aunt get well soon, so they will happy and every night, i will sleep peacefully…
get me a new nanny
March 14, 2008 at 3:48 pm (孩子篇)
since as a working mom, it is really hard for me to keep both family and work together.
this incident really makes me crazy when my aunt, who help me take care my girls, drop sick and now was in hospital… and there is no one available to take care my children…
help!!! really need a nanny in urgent…
starting a new job
March 11, 2008 at 5:28 pm (me me)
wow, missing my blog so much… been busy recently catching up new task, i had started a new job and there a alot of new things for me to catch up with, now i finally sneak out some time to drop my blog a few words…
i’m getting to like my new job…wish me luck to keep on…
My TGIF celebration
February 27, 2008 at 9:58 am (all about food)
this is for my farewell celebration, so i get to go to TGIF, haha…
my main course…yum yum
My New Year Target
February 25, 2008 at 5:14 pm (faith)
Since Sabrina birth, I been planning all kind of new year target to try to achieve before the end of this year. Some of them had been carried forward last year, 2007. It’s not I can’t do it, is because I am pregnant.
1. Travel to Korea again/ Hong Kong Disneyland. (Need to save the money for my hospital) so carry forward to 2009. This is because have to wait until Sabrina can walk.
2. Look for a job that has higher pay. (Can’t switch jobs during pregnancy is bacause i will lose my maternity leave, and there is no employer willing to take someone pregnant in) This one is achieved, shorthly after my confinement, I found one job which pay is higher and which is nearer to home. ACHIEVED
3. Get back to college. Finish my degree.
4. Get a House (Either Terrace or Apartment) Already found the perfect location but still looking for the budgeted price.
5. To slim down. Actually, is just the tummy part only. I can’t put on those nice clothes I used to had.(Tight one) So would like to go back to 45kg.
That is my personal things, and then for all my friends out there, hope you guys get what you wish for, my family members all stay healthy…
EVERYONE, DREAMS Does COME TRUE! JUST BELIEVE….
They want me to get Pregnant again!!!
February 22, 2008 at 11:16 am (in-laws)
This chinese new year, we went back to Ipoh to visited Kane’s family and relatives…
Also distributed ang pows for children and my girls collected ang pows…
And then listens to stupid comments again… So Boring!!!
Kane’s auntie ( 伯母) keep on asking me when am I going to give birth again to another baby boy to add the family brooth. Then, my Mom-in-law added in and say,” yalor yalor, two girls not enough one, must add some more one…..”
Kane then say maybe sometime later, but not now… As we both still struggle to take care of two daugthers and also keep our careers stay at the top, wait till the girls are school and then we then only think about adding another one… But both of the ladies are aiming at me, babies must give birth when you are young, so you will be able to take care of them…or girls not supposed to work one lah, must stay at home to take care of children… BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH…
At the entire conversation, I’ve been keeping quiet because I don’t want to start a fight, and others cleverly keeping quiet and not to interfere with this… OK… since you two not going to keep quiet and keep on shooting at me, you asked for it…
” Ah Ma, if you going to give me money monthly to raise my kids then i considered to give birth again, but remember plus my salary also as you requested me to stay at home one wor… if Kane ask me to stay then he give me salary, but now you requested me to stay at home then you paid me salary as i take care your grandchildren…And the salary better not less than what i have now…”
Then Kane 伯母 quickly changed and said nowdays are hard to stay at home as things are expensive and it is expensive to raise a kid BLAH BLAH, she is lucky that she changes quick, if not, she also get from me…
Then she quickly walked out the living room with my MIL towards the dining room…HAHA… This is called PLEASE RESPECT OTHERS…
When am I going to give birth again or not this question is going to be with me and Kane, not you two auntie to worried…We had our own plan to live with and you two are not counted a part in it, so when next time be smart when ask me the question when are you going to get pregnant again?
or you going to get bullets from me… Haha ( this question only Kane side are not allowed to ask, cause it make me get cross each time i heard it, it come with insulting, so only them are forbid to ask) Hehe… others are welcome…
