November 20, 2007 at 8:27 am (me me, 孩子篇, 怀孕篇)
today is 20/11/2007, there is two more days to go…i’m starting my maternity leave…
where i guess then i will have two months won’t be blogging, reading all my friends blog, shopping, swimming…
there is so many things i can’t do, but to prepare the arrival of my 2nd baby, sabrina yeap lee ern叶丽恩…
maria, earthtone, jason, i will miss you all… miss all your blogs…aish…
thinking of going through the labour pain again, man, why do i agree to get pregnant in the 1st place?
November 16, 2007 at 9:10 am (孩子篇)
this is carmen when she is 5 months old…
this is 3 months old…
November 16, 2007 at 9:03 am (in-laws, 孩子篇)
there is sometimes i wonder who my babies will they take after, me or kane? is not that my hubby is not handsome or dumb or what, there is something that i believed all parents will agree that they will hope their children take after the best, the bad attitude keep away…
once in engaged in this fight with my sister in law (kane’s younger sister) about the heritage problem. most people know carmen look alot like the father when she were born, totally the same chop (where everyone thought i gave birth to a baby boy), then she is chubby, well, of course babies are chubby… you know what… my sister in law told me the other day that this baby is bringing a good fortune to the family, of course you heard such a good comment you will be proud, but actually NO…
this is our conversation :
” yi shou (二嫂), the baby look alot like our side, so fat…you know ar, fat means bring good luck, skinny no good…i am sure she will be a fatty when she gew up”
X#%*#$%@*%$^##….. (she is lucky that i didn’t slap her in the face)
“choy, look like your side of the family, no way…fat and short…who say fat means fortune…i also so skinny, ask your brother whether did i bring bad luck to him or not? she nothing a part that look like your side” “plus if she fat means she sure on diet, means no healthy”
“no, trust me, cause i look at her bone ar, she is those fat fat genes”
“if you so good at looking at people body or plam, why don’t you set up a stall at the market and be a fartune teller, this is my daugther, and please don’t curse her with your #$%*$%^ mouth”
………………
this is kind like insulting me, i were always skinny, where i hardly gain any weight even thought no matter no i eat… what kind of old fashion thinking is this, fat means fook hei “福气”…
its not that i don’t like daughter fat or not fat next time, i can’t control that who she will takes after, is just i want her to grow happily and enjoy… but is just when i heard my in laws started to commented about my daugther, assume things about her, this is a part i don’t like…
i had an agreement with kane where we would never plan for our chilren future, because i believe this is their life, is them who fill their life with color, not us… we just being supportive to them… we never make judgement on them, means on their personality, like if you keep saying the kid if fat, do you know how hurt would it be that… make them no confidence in doing everything…
(that’s why when i hear my in laws comment about my baby…THERE WILL BE WAR…but this only happen to my in-law, haha…)
November 15, 2007 at 8:23 am (怀孕篇)
Tags: counting down
counting down to my due date, 30 more days to go…
been wondering what the feeling to be a mom again, the labour pain, this and that… from last delivery till now already one year, but i can’t believe that i had forgot all the suffered moments…
my dear baby, daddy, mommy and carmen jie jie waiting for you….
November 13, 2007 at 12:25 pm (孩子篇)
November 10, 2007 at 10:39 am (孩子篇)
carmen 1st birthday…haha…my daugther 1st birthday….(also my disasterious day, where i encountered pain, loses alot of blood, take pain killer, go through labour….) but when i see her waking early in the morning, smiling at you…being naughty, learning new things…
it is a worth to bring her into this world…
we decided to celebrated her birthday one day early, as it is deepavali holiday…where everybody is free…that morning, she wakes up early early in the morning, she climbs up to our bed, wake me and her daddy…later she had her meals, milk and bread…around 1030 she takes her nap, before we proceed with her activities at 1130, swimming…haha…
she really enjoy herself that day, after that, we bath her and let her had her lunch after around 45 minutes swimming at our apartment pool…
later that evening, we only bring her back to my mom’s place to have her birthday celebration start…
(i am too tired to continued…will post her birthday pics in the second post ya…)
November 6, 2007 at 8:43 am (man is like this)
recently, for the past few weeks i guess, i’ve been bringing my lunch to work…aish…
it is because i m pregnant, and my husband want me to eat some healthy food, but, actually…i m too lazy to cook for myself…so, end up that he is wirring about the baby healths…HE COOKS…
everyday he ask me what dishes do i feel like eating, haha… So, means that as long as i still pregnant with this child…i have the priority to make him cook…
Thank you ya…My hubby….
November 2, 2007 at 8:01 am (怀孕篇)
well, counting down from today date, another 7 days to come to celebrate carmen’s birthday, yup…her 1st birthday…. another 15 days to come to celebrate my 2nd anniversary…another 1 month(i guess, if my 2nd baby isn’t to anxious to meet us) for my 2nd baby…
then, i guess i will miss all my blog – blog to write down all this memories, i once read this article in maria’s blog, well, it really fit into my mind that blog can brings each one of us closer, where you can know alot the latest news of your friends, meet new one, share alot of ideas…it is great…
well, most actually is i m nervous about my birth, i actually don’t remember about my 1st labour…aish…i m worry that if i’m in the process of labour, i guess i will freak out again…haha…
i try to blog more as i maybe on leave for 2 months to concrentrate in my pregnancy and my confinement…
till then…
her birthday present
